Days of saving are over

I like this, but I also want to pick it apart.

If I am bedding with someone who inspires growth in me, how will I determine if this person is trying to save me? IS it okay to bed with someone who IS trying to save me?

The implication I believe, is that this person once was a savior/white knight. Now they realize how detrimental it was to their life, so they will no longer. Only bringing "healthy" people into their life. That is well and good. I'm curious though, does this preclude you from circling back to helping again? Or is it simply important to distinguish between the difference of saving and helping?

Can I, personally, Luna, find a way to connect with people who need a step up without doing more harm than good given what I am?

I do hope I find more people who inspire me.